And you're underestimating how much I love you and how much Fern and Ruby love you too.
[Usagi used "Guilt!"]
You handle this by TALKING, Varian.
This isn't something you ignore because maybe, Ruby will notice and maybe just wonder if you're getting bored with the relationship or wonder if you're cheating. And maybe Fern is going to keep thinking his love is unrequited and there's no hope for him until you give him this... glimmer so he can neither move on nor be with you. Or maybe none of that will happen. But this kind of thing needs you to be open and honest.
You CAN love more than one person at a time, Varian. You can even BE with more than one person at a time. [Should she bring up the threesome thing again? Eh, she'll hold on that for now.] But only if EVERYONE agrees to it. You're not being fair to anyone, including yourself,m by trying to pretend you don't feel what you do.
I mean, you do have options. But I think there's only you're going to like.
You can acknowledge that you have feelings for Fern but tell yourself you will NEVER do anything about it and tell FERN the same thing so he has a chance to move on. You tell Ruby you would like to break up and move on with a relationship with Fern, letting him know you still have feelings for HER.
Or you TALK to them and be HONEST about how you feel and see what THEY decide in all this.
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[Usagi used "Guilt!"]
You handle this by TALKING, Varian.
This isn't something you ignore because maybe, Ruby will notice and maybe just wonder if you're getting bored with the relationship or wonder if you're cheating. And maybe Fern is going to keep thinking his love is unrequited and there's no hope for him until you give him this... glimmer so he can neither move on nor be with you. Or maybe none of that will happen. But this kind of thing needs you to be open and honest.
You CAN love more than one person at a time, Varian. You can even BE with more than one person at a time. [Should she bring up the threesome thing again? Eh, she'll hold on that for now.] But only if EVERYONE agrees to it. You're not being fair to anyone, including yourself,m by trying to pretend you don't feel what you do.
I mean, you do have options. But I think there's only you're going to like.
You can acknowledge that you have feelings for Fern but tell yourself you will NEVER do anything about it and tell FERN the same thing so he has a chance to move on. You tell Ruby you would like to break up and move on with a relationship with Fern, letting him know you still have feelings for HER.
Or you TALK to them and be HONEST about how you feel and see what THEY decide in all this.